Emily has likely now landed back in Boston... I had a harder time than I had imagined with the idea of her leaving - which is to say, I knew it would be bittersweet, but didn't expect it to tug on my heart the way it did. I know part of that was simply the fear of being by myself, and by myself in an unfamiliar place. We have been so connected on a day to day basis for so long, it feels weird when we aren't with each other. And this is different than last summer when I was in Colorado - for obvious reasons...
October vacation is less than two months away....
I had a great day at school, finally connected with my Principal, who is awesome, and she was able to give structure and answers to many of my inquiries and imagining... I was able to set up my room a little more, even if just to get rid of the boxes, put up a couple of posters, and read a few files. The day flew by, as have many.
I struck up a conversation with and Irishman at dinner - I was sitting outside at a pub, having a really delicious veggie burger (the English have a spicy bean burger - a common vegetarian offer) - it was surprisingly flavorful and not heavy. Anyway, the content of the conversation is not remarkable, it was a simple exchange - what do you do, where are you from, what do you think of it here..., but I was able to make a connection with a stranger. For those of you worried about my aloneness here - don't worry, I have my wits about me, I don't share much, and am conscious of my surroundings.
So... The food... I've about had my fill of potatoes. Already. And today at lunch in the school cafeteria, I found myself devouring sauteed greens, which is not typical for me. Guess my body was needing some greens. I can't wait until I can go grocery shopping and start making myself food again.
I may get to stay with a fellow teacher until I can move into my flat - which will be both cheaper, and better ventilated. The colleague I may stay with bikes to/from work every day - which is not far, but as that is likely to be how I will get to work, I feel challenged by that particular mode of transport. The only thing that makes me a little intimidated is biking on public streets - the traffic is, well, interesting. If I thought the people of New England were aggressive and fast drivers - England driving is that, on speed. I mean, really.... The roads are narrow, and the cars/drivers essentially play chicken with each other to determine who will go before the other (known here as "to give way"), and I have felt a car within millimeters away from my person even walking to and from school.
However, I am determined to view any reasonable offer that comes my way as an opportunity to branch out (I am inspired by you in that regard Mrs. Kate Waldo-Fillion).
Okay, I am finally starting to adjust to the time change and am now fading. Now a few minutes of British TV - which is really just as obnoxious and fluffy as American TV - same stupid reality shows, same ridiculous sell for extravagance - but in a british accent. They do have Family Guy and Law and Order though, so that's enough - not that I do't have manuals, policies and student profiles to read....
As Always, Big Love!!
J
I love that you are blogging about your experiences! Are you going to be bringing Charlie over? I take it they no longer have the 6 month quarantine rule in place? I spent a year in the UK in 1985 and we had to find someone to live in our US house and care for the dog.
ReplyDeleteI am hoping to get over there in the next year and will let you know if I do!
xo
Hi Melissa,
ReplyDeleteThe plan is to bring the dogs over in Early December, once they have gone through their mandatory 6 month waiting period in the US, so they don't have to go into quarantine in the UK. I miss them dearly!!!